I bet you experienced this feeling, for so many times in your life.
(No worries, me too)
Let’s make up some (very related) examples:
Your crush refused you and your carefully prepared 100 roses, in front of so many strangers on the street?
Your colleague took the promotion at year end which should have been yours and laughed at your face?
Your loved one promised to come home early to have dinner together at your anniversary and was nowhere to be seen, even though it was so late already?
Whether we’re talking about a lost job, a child being disappointed because Mom or Dad didn’t make it to the school play, a failed marriage where you put the blame squarely on your spouse, the feelings are all the same. As a “victim”, your disappointment could be so great that you will not ever forgive. No matter how slight the reason is, when you are experiencing disappointment, the feelings are real. Consequently, if we do not deal with disappointment appropriately, they become counterproductive and create even more disappointment.
There are two types of people on earth. Type I are those who take any disappointment in stride; they observe what happened, explore the lesson that needs to be learned and then simply move onto the next adventure.Continue reading “Treating disappointment the unbound way”